Appreciate in Public and Criticize in Private,

The easiest way to motivate  your child is appreciate in public and criticize in private. This will  not just motivate the child   however will also raise his self esteem, improve his confidence, help him overcome his fears and the best will be it will improve your relation with your angel.

Many a times we do the opposite, we rarely appreciate and even if we do we do it when no one is around, why??? and when the times  comes to criticise we dont leave the first chance to do it in public.

We feel that if we appreciate in public we will  spoil the childs habits, and criticizing in public help the child to understand his mistakes.

Have we ever stepped into the childs shoes and thought, had we been in his place how we would have felt? No?? please do ... Dont forget just like we elders the child also has feelings , he too has an Ego , pride and Dignity may be not as big as ours but he does have......

Please remember do not do any of the action- be it appreciation or criticizm in excess and also appreciaton should be true appreciation.. A balanced approach is what is expected.

Try this simple gesture with your near and dear ones and see the Magic.

Talk to your child at least for 30 min daily.

Talk to your child at least for 30 min daily.

We elders are often  pre occupied with our work and daily chores and we don't have the time and patience to listen to the talks of our angels. We often say not now , I am busy....

The kids if we talk about in particular have  so much to share as each day, each minute they are learning something new.. and that they wants to express.They want  their near and dear ones to listen to them, to appreciate them.

Our 30 minutes daily will not only make them happy and  give them the confidence to express themselves however it will also motivate them. If heard in the family they wont need  to go out and share.

It is not just the kids who have a need for expression. It is also our need. each and every one of us are looking out for someone with whom we can speak our heart, someone who does not judge us or misunderstand us..Isnt it ???????????

 There is a vast difference between this action of kids and elders... kids share happiness, something new and exciting that they have come across.Their body language is so positive and enthusiastic that we get mired in their baby talks and forget all our pressures.

On the other hand we elders generally share our sad incidents from our past or we enjoy blaming and cribbing about our past.For a break from our stressful life  is going for a movies or chat with some friend...however I feel lucky are those families who have kids in there house as stress disappears in minutes from their lives. Kids are their stress buster.

So please give 30 min daily to your child and see how your life changes, your tension disappears in minutes, you will be  very successful and happy.  Their soft touch is so soothing and relaxing , their smile and that innocent look,the chuckle in their laugh  and that twinkle in their eyes wow....... its heaven. The thought itself is so relaxing.......

Spending time with them not just relaxes us however our few words of true appreciation and that look in our eyes that yes I am listening to you will raise their self esteem ,give them the feeling of being loved and wanted.

Do this daily and see how their personality is groomed, then they wont have to go in for Personality development  classes. Issues like socially withdrawn , low in confidence, many fears like fear of rejection,  failure of failure will disappear.

Remember True personality is developed at home with parents.

A Hug is a must for a good emotional and physical health of the child.

We have often heard- "An apple day keeps the doctor away". I would like to say many hugs a days can keep loneliness  and many health problems away.

What is a Hug? It is nothing but exchange of energy between two people. This energy  Improves our immunity, improves the emotional bond between parent and child. A hug is a solution to major health ailments - hyper tension , depressions,  In kids it also helps in great academic performance, improves blood circulation, it can be a solution to dissolve hatred.

A hug or that touch gives the child / elder the feeling of security, a feeling – I m there for you, feeling of acceptance, A genuine hug has the spark which can ignite the hidden potential which can convert a so called zero into a hero/ achiever and  much much more…..

Remember zero has a lot of value – All that is needed is a one or few more zeros.

So practice this simple  gesture with your near and dear and also with self regularly and see the magic.

Good Human Being.

Good Human Being

It is easy to be a  Graphologist i.e know the meaning of various strokes and do analysis. However it is very difficult to be a Good Human Being. To be a good Graphologist it is very important to be a pure, humble human being, it is only then that you will be able to bring about changes in others lives, you may earn money ,however your account of BLESSINGS will be  empty.

In my profession where I handle kids,

I realize it is so very important for me to be Pure. It is the BLESSINGS which has made me so successful in this field.

This is the field where negative EGO has no place .

The more Humble and down to earth you are the more you will grow. The more giving you are the more you will get.

I inherited these qualities from my parents , however over the years these qualities had got buried under a layer of dust.

We at Renovision say when you enter Renovision for the Graphology training sessions you have to leave your footwear outside, i.e  leave your EGO outside. It is only then ,you will be in a receiving mode. It is only then, actual Self improvement takes place

My cleansing process is still on.

This the teaching of RENOVISION MANAGEMENT CONSULTANTS and Pradeep Kirpalani. A true Graphologist.

A huge thankyou to my Parents and my Mentor Pradeep Kirpalani  for imbibing such qualities in me.

Why kids those who print are slow in reading than those who write cursive?

Once I was attending our normal graphology session on one Sunday morning and I got the answer.

I basically am a teacher and had my own coaching classes. Mostly all my students were from convent schools and wrote cursive , except one who was  from non-convent. This child was very intelligent but whenever I use to tell him to read he use to first of all spell the words and pause after every word before saying the word. Initially he was just learning to read so I thought that was a reason ,but after  a year also it was the same often I shouted at him but…that day in the session I realised that people who print take time to connect thoughts which is very important while reading. Observe print writing it is disconnected as we say graphology is the study of the subconscious mind so in case of print writing the child puts a thought down in the form of a letter then takes a pause then the next. This is why his reading becomes slow not that he does not know to read.

People who write cursive you find the letters are connected that in Graphology means all the thoughts are connected all in a flow without a pause which gives speed to their written as well as verbal skills. Their spoken English is better than people who print be it from convent or any normal school. We have checked this in 1000 of cases. People who print have other strengths. Fluidity of thought here is the strength of cursive writes.

Graphology helped me as a teacher to understand my students

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Positively programming your child.

You can follow this small action twice a day and see the results.Whisper a positive word in his ear before he goes to bed and when he gets up.Words like  YOU ARE SPECIAL, YOU ARE MY ANGEL, I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE MY FAVOURITE,YOU CAN DO IT and so on. This will develop confidence in him, faith in you and he will never indulge into wrong activities, he will develop strong self-belief which will make him successful good human being. You can also make your child repeat positive words for himself like I m a good boy, I am intelligent; I am smart and so on. It is like setting an alarm in his mind. Which rings each time he does something wrong or something correct.eg he has to do a certain activity and somewhere he is not sure if he can do it or not that moment this alarm will ring  “YOU CAN DO IT “  and his confidence will become double.He will confide in you and share the negative action if ever he has done and there you as a parent you have to play your role of making him understand. It is so simple we all be it kids or elders want love, approval, support etc… from our near and dear ones. Once we get that why will we go elsewhere for these emotional needs to be fulfilled.Many of us may say we know all this, yes we all do but we don’t put it in action which is very important, so Do IT and experience the magic.