Saturday, October 27, 2012

Positively programming your child.



You can follow this small action twice a day and see the results.Whisper a positive word in his ear before he goes to bed and when he gets up.Words like  YOU ARE SPECIAL, YOU ARE MY ANGEL, I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE MY FAVOURITE,YOU CAN DO IT and so on. This will develop confidence in him, faith in you and he will never indulge into wrong activities, he will develop strong self-belief which will make him successful good human being. You can also make your child repeat positive words for himself like I m a good boy, I am intelligent; I am smart and so on. It is like setting an alarm in his mind. Which rings each time he does something wrong or something correct.eg he has to do a certain activity and somewhere he is not sure if he can do it or not that moment this alarm will ring  “YOU CAN DO IT “  and his confidence will become double.He will confide in you and share the negative action if ever he has done and there you as a parent you have to play your role of making him understand. It is so simple we all be it kids or elders want love, approval, support etc… from our near and dear ones. Once we get that why will we go elsewhere for these emotional needs to be fulfilled.Many of us may say we know all this, yes we all do but we don’t put it in action which is very important, so Do IT and experience the magic. 

1 comments:

div said...

Loved this article di...and have started practising it as well....Every child is special...and we need to let him know every moment of our life!!!! Thanks for sharing such a wonderful thought...

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