Live and Let Live

Imagine we take  a tomato and we put it under our Palm first we apply slight pressure the tomato gets squeezed and as the pressure goes on increasing the tomato  shrinks and when pressure is too much it bursts open, what we see is- tomato is smashed, its juice and seeds come out, and it is torn apart.

This was a tomato imagine what if this was you or me. This is what happens when we try to over power someone with our own thoughts, the persons listens and listens and there comes apoint when he breaks. In the process his potential, talent, confidence all goes waste

 A person who is tagged by near and dear ones as Matured, understanding, sacrificing has no other option but to forcefully bear this pressure. The result is stress, brain related problems, fibroids, frustrations, BP, asthma, Identity crisis………

So they suffer from ailments like these, some knowing/ unknowningly transfer their frustrations to others. Coz they never got a chance to be noticed, so now they don’t leave any chance to show their talent, this is an outlet to their pent-up emotion.

However these souls in the process don’t understand that ,they are again creating a clone of themselves.

Being a Graphologists  I have experienced and seen handwriting of such writers, they have desire to be noticed/ desire for attention, they only are concerned about people praising them, and forget that others also at time need to be praised, Many of them are selective listeners. They at times laugh unnecessarily.

We can’t blame them, we have to understand the reason for their behavior, and handle with care and compassion.

The best solution would be let people live freely. That is actual growth

Be it Kids or Elders, be it office or home- no one likes to be pressurized. The lighter a person is from within the best he /she will perform.

Take the example of a balloon the lighter it is the higher it flies. Same thing applies hear be light and happy and see you will do wonders.

Also keep a check are you pressurizing someone else in the process of becoming light yourself. If so please stop and check your action.

Never over power someone so much that he or she loses his/her originality

Moral of the story is live and let live.