What is Graphotherapy?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 What is Graphotherapy

Graphotherapy is one of the most powerful tool which assists you in achieving your dreams  or you can say it is a cleansing agent that removes the dirt stuck up in the flute which was disturbing the whole vibration and not giving desired soothing music which the flute is capable of. It also helps to modify your life forever in a positive and powerful way. Graphology helps you identify your fears,defenses and reasons for your failure and therapy assists you in overcoming them. Graphotherapy affects your unconscious mind integrating the knowledge into the brain through the nerves in your fingers. The tailor who helps you alter or modify your personality is called  a Graphotherapist. One should never change  handwriting without the consultation of a certified graphotherapist as it can have its major side effects. Like we don’t consume any tablet without our doctors prescription similarly no changes to be made without consulting  a graphotherapist.

 It takes 21 days to 30 days  to  change a particular trait in your handwriting.

' Mind Programming through the Handwriting for Kids' is a similar 21 Days programme  , where in we do the positive reprogramming of the childs mind just through his penstrokes.This Programme helps in enhancing his grades, improves selfesteem, improves his span of concentration , improves health, solves behavioural issues, enhances parent child  bond and much more....

Positive words and the tool of graphotherapy can do wonders in your childs life.

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Here are few strokes which will help u to understand your child better, so to to know the meaning of many such strokes be with us.

                                                         

Do you find a small case d that is looped in your child’s handwriting?

The loop in the d shows that the person is sensitive to criticism,  the bigger the loop the more the sensitivity. If the loop is very fat then this person  starts imagining criticism. This child needs your approval, your love. He /she somewhere have fear within them that people or elders will not approve his actions. This child somewhere has been compared by his family members with someone who is his very own may be his own sibling. So parents if you see this d in your child’s handwriting it’s time to check your behaviour. The best way to remove the child from this situation is to appreciate him.  However small the act may be make it a point to appreciate then and there, don’t wait for some big achievement .Appreciate in public and see how your child will shine. Sincere compliments are what this person need. And don’t compare your kids with others imagine if we were compared how we would feel.hm? you won’t even know when the kids are developing bitter feelings for each other. This bitterness may create problem when they grow if not checked on the right time. Each person has his own identity, his own potential  help him maintain his individuality and bring out his potential.

Moral of today’s post don’t miss even the smallest opportunity to appreciate someone, and don’t compare.

                                        

                                                    Squeezed e

If this stroke is in your child’s handwriting he is a selective listener. You may be telling many things to your child without knowing if he is actually listening to you. This formation if seen often in your child it shows he is giving a deaf ear to your dos and don’ts .If this continues for  a long time the person may suffer from acidity problems, addictions. This person is not open minded he /she will prefer to do what he/ she likes. The reason for this kind of behaviour is that the father has not kept up his promises over a period of time as a result the child has closed his ears to his suggestions and now it has become his habit and he listens to only things which he wants.

We learn that if we don’t want our kids to behave in this way please don’t make false promises .For us it may not be a serious issue but think of it from the kids point of view let’s take an e.g. here A father promises his son “son if you get 80% in your exams I will take you a particular place. According to the father this promise acts as a motivation for the child. Yes it does! the child puts in all his efforts and along with his efforts he does one more thing, he tells all his friends that if he gets 80% his dad will take him to xyz place. Now when he achieves 80% means he has kept his promise now he is expecting the same thing from his father but the father is unable to keep his promise coz he has some urgent work or some reason which may be v v genuine. The child is upset, reason not just that he is unable to go, but remember he has told his friends  ,now he feels all his friends will laugh at him. If this happens over and over again the above formation takes place in the child handwriting.

Moral: Keep up to all your promises be it in the case of elders or kids. I agree at times it is not possible, here mothers have to play their special role- make the child understand the reason for not keeping up the promise. And fathers please see that this does not happen again and again. This small formation can be the coz of many serious issues. So take care.

Positively programming your child.

You can follow this small action twice a day and see the results.

Whisper a positive word in his ear before he goes to bed and when he gets up.

Words like  YOU ARE SPECIAL, YOU ARE MY ANGEL, I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE MY FAVOURITE,YOU CAN DO IT and so on. This will develop confidence in him, faith in you and he will never indulge into wrong activities, he will develop strong self-belief which will make him successful good human being. You can also make your child repeat positive words for himself like I m a good boy, I am intelligent; I am smart and so on. It is like setting an alarm in his mind. Which rings each time he does something wrong or something correct.eg he has to do a certain activity and somewhere he is not sure if he can do it or not that moment this alarm will ring  “YOU CAN DO IT “  and his confidence will become double.

He will confide in you and share the negative action if ever he has done and there you as a parent you have to play your role of making him understand.

It is so simple we all be it kids or elders want love, approval, support etc… from our near and dear ones. Once we get that why will we go elsewhere for these emotional needs to be fulfilled.

Many of us may say we know all this, yes we all do but we don’t put it in action which is very important, so Do IT and experience the magic.

An e which has a good loop shows that the child is a good listener. He will listen carefully to all the instructions given. In  elders this also shows that they are open minded. People will love to open their heart out to this person. 

Parents and teachers by just looking at the type of e you can understand how much are your words being payed heed to. Is continuous shouting or advise being taken in or  they are just banging

Often when parents or teachers are dealing with kids u must have heard them saying , why don’t you understand such simple things , how many times I have to explain you? And many times the parents or teacher gets fed up and even shouts at the kid, you need real patience to handle such kids.

On the other hand there are kids who are very quick you explain them once and they grasp it. We often say wow !and frankly speaking we enjoy teaching them. Isn’t it?

Now teachers especially todays post will help you to understand who is slow at learning and who is fast, then without losing your cool you can handle those kids in a particular pattern.

Cumulative thinker

This is seen in a m which is rounded. These kids are slow at understanding any concept, not that they lack the ability to understand but they need things to be repeated over and over again till it is understood completely. Once they understand the concept they will remember it for years. They  will want you to be slow and steady in your explanation follow a certain amount of sequence. If not they will find it very difficult to understand and will lose interest in that subject or topic.

Mothers if you have a daughter who writes this type of m and you want her to cook don’t just orally explain her the recipe demonstrate it to her and see she will learn faster. These kids will understand by demonstration .they enjoy practical classes more than theory. You will ask me why see the formation is rounded soft these kids move slowly collecting all the facts and once they collect all the facts about a certain concept it becomes easy for them to understand. That peace of information fits in their mind and they will never forget it.

These students are also very creative. While moving slowly they find their own ideas  or methods to understand that particular concept. So teachers if you have these as your students be ready to repeat things for them and not get bugged with them .

See how Graphology helps  to segregate a slow learner from a quick learner and makes life easier for all parent, teacher and kids.

Count what your child can do and not what he/she cannot.

Would like to share my experience with you. As this is vacation time so we at  conduct Mind programming through Handwriting for Kids. This is 21 days course  where in we ask the child to follow a set of positive strokes which programmes his/her mind for  increase in concentration ,solves his behavioural issues, his grades increase and many more. One parent use to come daily to leave her kid for the class, and as she was located far from the office she use to wait there. The minute she would get a chance to talk to me she would start my daughter is like this like that, yeh nahin karti who nahi karti , sunti nahi hai and on on on. I tried to make her understand very politely  and that her child was good she need not worry. But she did not stop her story then one day I shared the issue with my Sir. He just smiled and I left to conduct my sessio., after completing my session when I came out to my surprise this mother was praising her daughter saying mam u know my daughter is very good at drawing and dancing. I smiled but inside was shocked how did this happen. After she left I asked sir how did this happen. He said a day before he had conducted a session for parents .He said he did nothing he was just sharing his experience about that session with one of our students. Which this parent overheard. He said “I told the parents what if I just keep on counting your mistakes day in and day out how would you feel.  Same does the child feel .Don’t create self-deceit in the child but at least don’t criticise his every action or move. You know what will have if you do so that child will develop a feeling in the long run m I good for nothing? a feeling of self doubt.”

So true imagine yourself in this situation and how you would feel? Will this person take any step confidently in his life? There will be such a lot of hesitation should I should I not?

 So search for what a person has not what he does not.

I believe that if we focus on the good qualities the beholder of that particular qualities will also focus on those goods that the bad . And slowly slowly those bad qualities will fade away. If we do vice versa  the result will also be vice versa.

I KNEW ALL THIS BUT SOME WHERE IT HAS SLIPPED  OF MY MIND . SERIOUSLY SPEAKING I DID NOT PUT IT INTO ACTION . I HAVE STARTED PRACTICING IT AND  I AM FEELING NICE.

MANY OF YOU ALSO KNOW THIS BUT AGAIN WHERE IS THE ACTION? SO LETS ALL DO THIS AND SEE THE MAGIC. LETS CONTIRBUTE IN DEVELOPING THE CONFIDENCE , SELFESTEEM OF OUR NEAR AND DEAR ONES.