Graphology

A Simple Gesture to healthy hair

Each one of us be it young or old are very much concerned about our hair. We search for medicines which can stop hair fall and early graying of hair.
Thick, bouncy, black hair is everyone’s dream.
So try this give a head massage. ( champi) to your near and dear ones regularly.
This will not just improve blood circulation of the scalp and improve the quality of the hair; it will also reduce stress and will improve our bonding.
Make this a routine habit in your family and share the results.
A mother to son, daughter to father, sister to brother, husband to wife and wife to husband and yes even amongst friends you can do this. Not necessary with opposite gender you can do it with same gender also.
So next time don’t oil your hair self ask someone from the family to do...and get rid of all hair issues.
If you remember this was a practice in olden days however, with tge busy life all these practices have disappeared.
Lets make it a daily practice...it costs nothing just few minutes.
Thanks to my mentor Pradeep Kirpalani for conducting the session on ' Handwriting the Blueprint of your Health'
And giving these useful tips.
So I always say Graphology at Renovision is different, and you have to undergo Sirs training to experience it.

Friendship

  Friends Play a very Important role  in grooming your childs personality.


Friends are the most precious gift of our lives. Not just one however each and every friend is of utmost important. That is why it is said hare ek friend jaroori hota hai, Jessa bhi ho Hare  ek friend Jaroori hota hai..
Some are with us for few days, some for months , some years and few for a life time. What ever is the duration of the friendship it does have few important moments to cherish….isnt it…

It s our friends who  often help us understand the difference between right and wrong. Friends help us in building our confidence, they also are our true critics, they help us in grooming our over all personality.

Yes at times we do have sour moments with friends… however that’s life… ..

Friendship has no age bar…. That’s the best thing about it.
We share our emotions with our friends…. Without any hesitation coz we know they won’t judge us isn’t it ????
I feel the richest person is the one who has wonderful friends …
I am v lucky when it comes to friend….. at every stage of my life I have made beautiful friends.

The Moral of the story is let your child socialize and make friends.  A person without friends or without a social group is very weak with in… Some where his personality does not develop completely. There is a vacuum within, which even the parents cant fulfill.

As Parents we often judge our child’s friends, or we be over protective about the child and don’t give him that space to interact with friends.. I am not saying  let him do what he wants, however don’t be over protective… Be there whenever he needs you…Don’t forget Parent is child’s first friend.

It is not just children, we all want friends... Even today we miss our friends.. where ever on earth we are those memories are always with us.

Appreciate in Public and Criticize in Private,

The easiest way to motivate  your child is appreciate in public and criticize in private. This will  not just motivate the child   however will also raise his self esteem, improve his confidence, help him overcome his fears and the best will be it will improve your relation with your angel.

Many a times we do the opposite, we rarely appreciate and even if we do we do it when no one is around, why??? and when the times  comes to criticise we dont leave the first chance to do it in public.

We feel that if we appreciate in public we will  spoil the childs habits, and criticizing in public help the child to understand his mistakes.

Have we ever stepped into the childs shoes and thought, had we been in his place how we would have felt? No?? please do ... Dont forget just like we elders the child also has feelings , he too has an Ego , pride and Dignity may be not as big as ours but he does have......

Please remember do not do any of the action- be it appreciation or criticizm in excess and also appreciaton should be true appreciation.. A balanced approach is what is expected.

Try this simple gesture with your near and dear ones and see the Magic.

Talk to your child at least for 30 min daily.

Talk to your child at least for 30 min daily.

We elders are often  pre occupied with our work and daily chores and we don't have the time and patience to listen to the talks of our angels. We often say not now , I am busy....

The kids if we talk about in particular have  so much to share as each day, each minute they are learning something new.. and that they wants to express.They want  their near and dear ones to listen to them, to appreciate them.

Our 30 minutes daily will not only make them happy and  give them the confidence to express themselves however it will also motivate them. If heard in the family they wont need  to go out and share.

It is not just the kids who have a need for expression. It is also our need. each and every one of us are looking out for someone with whom we can speak our heart, someone who does not judge us or misunderstand us..Isnt it ???????????

 There is a vast difference between this action of kids and elders... kids share happiness, something new and exciting that they have come across.Their body language is so positive and enthusiastic that we get mired in their baby talks and forget all our pressures.

On the other hand we elders generally share our sad incidents from our past or we enjoy blaming and cribbing about our past.For a break from our stressful life  is going for a movies or chat with some friend...however I feel lucky are those families who have kids in there house as stress disappears in minutes from their lives. Kids are their stress buster.

So please give 30 min daily to your child and see how your life changes, your tension disappears in minutes, you will be  very successful and happy.  Their soft touch is so soothing and relaxing , their smile and that innocent look,the chuckle in their laugh  and that twinkle in their eyes wow....... its heaven. The thought itself is so relaxing.......

Spending time with them not just relaxes us however our few words of true appreciation and that look in our eyes that yes I am listening to you will raise their self esteem ,give them the feeling of being loved and wanted.

Do this daily and see how their personality is groomed, then they wont have to go in for Personality development  classes. Issues like socially withdrawn , low in confidence, many fears like fear of rejection,  failure of failure will disappear.

Remember True personality is developed at home with parents.

A Hug is a must for a good emotional and physical health of the child.

We have often heard- "An apple day keeps the doctor away". I would like to say many hugs a days can keep loneliness  and many health problems away.

What is a Hug? It is nothing but exchange of energy between two people. This energy  Improves our immunity, improves the emotional bond between parent and child. A hug is a solution to major health ailments - hyper tension , depressions,  In kids it also helps in great academic performance, improves blood circulation, it can be a solution to dissolve hatred.

A hug or that touch gives the child / elder the feeling of security, a feeling – I m there for you, feeling of acceptance, A genuine hug has the spark which can ignite the hidden potential which can convert a so called zero into a hero/ achiever and  much much more…..

Remember zero has a lot of value – All that is needed is a one or few more zeros.

So practice this simple  gesture with your near and dear and also with self regularly and see the magic.

Good Human Being.

Good Human Being

It is easy to be a  Graphologist i.e know the meaning of various strokes and do analysis. However it is very difficult to be a Good Human Being. To be a good Graphologist it is very important to be a pure, humble human being, it is only then that you will be able to bring about changes in others lives, you may earn money ,however your account of BLESSINGS will be  empty.

In my profession where I handle kids,

I realize it is so very important for me to be Pure. It is the BLESSINGS which has made me so successful in this field.

This is the field where negative EGO has no place .

The more Humble and down to earth you are the more you will grow. The more giving you are the more you will get.

I inherited these qualities from my parents , however over the years these qualities had got buried under a layer of dust.

We at Renovision say when you enter Renovision for the Graphology training sessions you have to leave your footwear outside, i.e  leave your EGO outside. It is only then ,you will be in a receiving mode. It is only then, actual Self improvement takes place

My cleansing process is still on.

This the teaching of RENOVISION MANAGEMENT CONSULTANTS and Pradeep Kirpalani. A true Graphologist.

A huge thankyou to my Parents and my Mentor Pradeep Kirpalani  for imbibing such qualities in me.