Friendship

  Friends Play a very Important role  in grooming your childs personality.


Friends are the most precious gift of our lives. Not just one however each and every friend is of utmost important. That is why it is said hare ek friend jaroori hota hai, Jessa bhi ho Hare  ek friend Jaroori hota hai..
Some are with us for few days, some for months , some years and few for a life time. What ever is the duration of the friendship it does have few important moments to cherish….isnt it…

It s our friends who  often help us understand the difference between right and wrong. Friends help us in building our confidence, they also are our true critics, they help us in grooming our over all personality.

Yes at times we do have sour moments with friends… however that’s life… ..

Friendship has no age bar…. That’s the best thing about it.
We share our emotions with our friends…. Without any hesitation coz we know they won’t judge us isn’t it ????
I feel the richest person is the one who has wonderful friends …
I am v lucky when it comes to friend….. at every stage of my life I have made beautiful friends.

The Moral of the story is let your child socialize and make friends.  A person without friends or without a social group is very weak with in… Some where his personality does not develop completely. There is a vacuum within, which even the parents cant fulfill.

As Parents we often judge our child’s friends, or we be over protective about the child and don’t give him that space to interact with friends.. I am not saying  let him do what he wants, however don’t be over protective… Be there whenever he needs you…Don’t forget Parent is child’s first friend.

It is not just children, we all want friends... Even today we miss our friends.. where ever on earth we are those memories are always with us.

Appreciate in Public and Criticize in Private,

The easiest way to motivate  your child is appreciate in public and criticize in private. This will  not just motivate the child   however will also raise his self esteem, improve his confidence, help him overcome his fears and the best will be it will improve your relation with your angel.

Many a times we do the opposite, we rarely appreciate and even if we do we do it when no one is around, why??? and when the times  comes to criticise we dont leave the first chance to do it in public.

We feel that if we appreciate in public we will  spoil the childs habits, and criticizing in public help the child to understand his mistakes.

Have we ever stepped into the childs shoes and thought, had we been in his place how we would have felt? No?? please do ... Dont forget just like we elders the child also has feelings , he too has an Ego , pride and Dignity may be not as big as ours but he does have......

Please remember do not do any of the action- be it appreciation or criticizm in excess and also appreciaton should be true appreciation.. A balanced approach is what is expected.

Try this simple gesture with your near and dear ones and see the Magic.