Understand your childs Thinking and learning pattern

Often when parents or teachers are dealing with kids u must have heard them saying , why don’t you understand such simple things , how many times I have to explain you? And many times the parents or teacher gets fed up and even shouts at the kid, you need real patience to handle such kids.

On the other hand there are kids who are very quick you explain them once and they grasp it. We often say wow !and frankly speaking we enjoy teaching them. Isn’t it?

Now teachers especially todays post will help you to understand who is slow at learning and who is fast, then without losing your cool you can handle those kids in a particular pattern.

Cumulative thinker

This is seen in a m which is rounded. These kids are slow at understanding any concept, not that they lack the ability to understand but they need things to be repeated over and over again till it is understood completely. Once they understand the concept they will remember it for years. They  will want you to be slow and steady in your explanation follow a certain amount of sequence. If not they will find it very difficult to understand and will lose interest in that subject or topic.

Mothers if you have a daughter who writes this type of m and you want her to cook don’t just orally explain her the recipe demonstrate it to her and see she will learn faster. These kids will understand by demonstration .they enjoy practical classes more than theory. You will ask me why see the formation is rounded soft these kids move slowly collecting all the facts and once they collect all the facts about a certain concept it becomes easy for them to understand. That peace of information fits in their mind and they will never forget it.

These students are also very creative. While moving slowly they find their own ideas  or methods to understand that particular concept. So teachers if you have these as your students be ready to repeat things for them and not get bugged with them .

See how Graphology helps  to segregate a slow learner from a quick learner and makes life easier for all parent, teacher and kids.

A good listener

An e which has a good loop shows that the child is a good listener. He will listen carefully to all the instructions given. In  elders this also shows that they are open minded. People will love to open their heart out to this person.

Parents and teachers by just looking at the type of e you can understand how much are your words being payed heed to. Is continuous shouting or advise being taken in or  they are just banging against a deaf ear.

Loop in the small case d

 Understand your child better

                                                         

Do you find a small case d that is looped in your child’s handwriting?

The loop in the d shows that the person is sensitive to criticism,  the bigger the loop the more the sensitivity. If the loop is very fat then this person  starts imagining criticism. This child needs your approval, your love. He /she somewhere have fear within them that people or elders will not approve his actions. This child somewhere has been compared by his family members with someone who is his very own may be his own sibling. So parents if you see this d in your child’s handwriting it’s time to check your behaviour. The best way to remove the child from this situation is to appreciate him.  However small the act may be make it a point to appreciate then and there, don’t wait for some big achievement .Appreciate in public and see how your child will shine. Sincere compliments are what this person need. And don’t compare your kids with others imagine if we were compared how we would feel.hm? you won’t even know when the kids are developing bitter feelings for each other. This bitterness may create problem when they grow if not checked on the right time. Each person has his own identity, his own potential  help him maintain his individuality and bring out his potential.

Moral of today’s post don’t miss even the smallest opportunity to appreciate someone, and don’t compare.

Is your child a selective listener?

                                                                     

Squeezed e

If this stroke is in your child’s handwriting he is a selective listener. You may be telling many things to your child without knowing if he is actually listening to you. This formation if seen often in your child it shows he is giving a deaf ear to your dos and don’ts .If this continues for  a long time the person may suffer from acidity problems, addictions. This person is not open minded he /she will prefer to do what he/ she likes.

The reason for this kind of behaviour is that the father has not kept up his promises over a period of time as a result the child has closed his ears to his suggestions and now it has become his habit and he listens to only things which he wants.

We learn that if we don’t want our kids to behave in this way please don’t make false promises .For us it may not be a serious issue but think of it from the kids point of view let’s take an e.g. here A father promises his son “son if you get 80% in your exams I will take you a particular place. According to the father this promise acts as a motivation for the child. Yes it does! the child puts in all his efforts and along with his efforts he does one more thing, he tells all his friends that if he gets 80% his dad will take him to xyz place. Now when he achieves 80% means he has kept his promise now he is expecting the same thing from his father but the father is unable to keep his promise coz he has some urgent work or some reason which may be v v genuine. The child is upset, reason not just that he is unable to go, but remember he has told his friends  ,now he feels all his friends will laugh at him. If this happens over and over again the above formation takes place in the child handwriting.

Moral: Keep up to all your promises be it in the case of elders or kids. I agree at times it is not possible, here mothers have to play their special role- make the child understand the reason for not keeping up the promise. And fathers please see that this does not happen again and again. This small formation can be the coz of many serious issues. So take care.